I can quote all kinds of phrases about success being a journey and not a destination. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. Life’s a marathon, not a sprint. Yet, when it comes to a big goal in life, I’m tempted to let the overwhelming process cause me to give up on my dreams. How do we bridge the gap between where we are and where we want to be?
When I think about living in Australia, my brain gets bombarded with questions:
- How are we going to get people to come to our house for church?
- Will we ever have enough people to launch a real service?
- Who will lead worship for us so its not cheesy?
- Where is the money going to come from?
- Will I need to get a job and if so, what will I even do?
- Not to mention, “Where are we going to live?” and “what school is my kid going to go to?”
God clearly spoke and reminded me to take it
He encouraged me that how we got where we are today wasn’t through some out of body experience that promoted us to “leader status.” We got here one choice at a time. Handling the small stuff each and every day brings progress. After each of my three pregnancies, I gained 50 pounds; I wanted to lose weight immediately after I gave birth and ran a couple of miles. Instead, it took nine months! Early in our marriage, Greg and I were in heaps of credit card debt. I wanted to get on a budget for a few months and see it all magically disappear. Instead, a couple of years of strict financial discipline and working hard to earn extra money finally allowed us to pay it all off.
Think of this: the same logic we use to justify a bad decision can be used to gain positive momentum in life. For example, I can look at a bowl of ice cream and say, “it’s just one bowl. Eating it will not make me gain five pounds” (bad decision). Or, I can look at it and say, “it’s just one bowl. But, I’m not gonna eat it.” If I do that consistently for a few weeks, I’ll lose five pounds. The problem is, instant gratification often overrides this logic. Instead of convincing ourselves that “a little bit won’t hurt” why not say “a little bit WILL help?”
The phrase “good things come to those who wait” is partially misleading. I guess it applies if you’re talking about standing in line to ride Big Thunder Mountain Railroad. Following the crowd mindlessly will eventually lead you to the ride.
For everything else in life, there’s work in the waiting. While we are waiting to launch Lift Church, we are working hard. There’s not much I can do today grow Lift Church, but I CAN grow myself.
Who we area today, is a direct result of the choices we have made over time. The great news is: the person I want to become doesn’t depend on finding a genie in a bottle or winning the lottery. I just have to work on today. Planting a church in Australia isn’t happening overnight. The way we are going to get there is
We will work while we are waiting. Everyday, I spend time with God. Everyday I pray. Everyday I read my Bible. Everyday I take care of my physical body through exercise and healthy eating. Every paycheck, I tithe. Discipline, praying for God’s favor, serving people, making the phone calls to raise money, keeping our family life a priority, networking. Even when we don’t feel like it. Day by day. Little by little. One bite at a time. I’ve spent the last 35 years doing that. So, today, I’ll just do it again. And tomorrow more of the same. And when worry or fear creeps up, I’ll just do it anyway. And then, one day, I’m gonna wake up and realize, we have a church!
Patient endurance is what you need now, so that you will continue to do God’s will. Then you will receive all that he has promised. Hebrews 10:36